12 best thing to be friends with an introvert
I am sure you have heard a lot of things about introvert, especially how boring they are. They are quite, shy, etc etc.
But have you ever realized these amazing qualities about an introvert that makes them the best person to be friends with?
Here are 12 perks of being friends with an introvert;
If you are a friend with an introvert you will never need a shrink in your life. We do talk less but that even makes us a good listener with amazing advice to offer.
No Gossips and rumors
Rumors and introverts go in opposite directions. Since we hardly interact with human (we love our pets) it’s impossible for us to start a rumor or spread one. And you can be 100% sure we never gossip about you because we only talk if it is really important.
Collection of books or series
It’s either books or series or movies or all of it. We always have amazing collections of this available with us. It is like our oxygen. It is something that connects us to the world. And our playlist is always updated. We just can’t live our house without a headphone. Wondering what is in it for you?? Well, you can borrow it anytime you want. After all it is the latest and updated collection.
Hogging the limelight
Going out for a party with your introvert friend??Well first thing bravo (we hardly leave our nest) and don’t worry you will always be the popular one. Even if we get an attention we will happily divert it your way and find a corner to hide ourselves.
Intelligence is our second name
We might seem quite or shy, but never take it for us being stupid. We are very intelligent with great ideas and views. Don’t forget the advice you get when you are depressed or confused and don’t u dare forget the presentation you gave for that promotion based on my ideas.
Most of you will have a go-to-place like Paris, Amsterdam or London. Guess where we like to go. Yeah! You guessed it right. It’s our comfy couch. You will find the most comfortable couch in our house. We can spend our life on our couch (if that was possible).
The closest we can get to socializing is social media. Even here we don’t intimidate you with our happening life pics and post. We are here to just increase you friend and read news feeds.
We are the once who always gets judged by random people all the time. Since, we don’t interact much people assume all sorts of thing about us and since, we are so conscious with all this judgement’s that we hardly have time to judge others.
We love doing this. Sorry. But if we forcibly make us sit for some group interaction or gossips this is what you are getting yourself into. You can talk for hours and we will be zoned out to a completely different place.
Thinking a lot
This is a kind of disease we are born with. We can’t help but think a lot about thing’s that doesn’t even matter to others. For example: to start a conversation. It might seem so easy to others but trust me we need high level preparation to initiate a talk like what to say, how to say, when to say, what not to say…….so much stress. Well the good thing is we think twice(or hundred times) before saying anything. Isn’t it a good thing?
Few good friends
We know we can’t make friends. But we cherish the few people we have in our little world. They are so special and we love them with all our heart. Just want to say thank you for being there. You have no idea how much this means to us.
Need to ditch a boring party or a family gathering? Come to us, we hate gatherings and have a bank of excuses ready to get out of one and by any chance if we do attend your party, consider yourself lucky. We don’t do it often.
I know there are different kinds of introvert, but the major chunk are the once listed above. In case you are friends with an introvert you are really really special. Because we don’t allow people to enter in our world and if somehow you have entered, we will make all the efforts to never lose you.